FEMALE SEXUAL OPPRESSION

My personal understanding, not targeted against any religion.
The famous fruit, that took the human race away from God, is not the fruit of knowledge, but the fruit of lovemaking. Who is held responsible for introducing Man to this fruit and taking him away from God? The first woman of course. A way to blame women, and in turn lovemaking, for all the woes of society. Moreover, one of the ways in which society lowers the female libido through religious fables.

The female libido is normally suppressed by all male dominated societies, and sometimes that suppression is even enforced through religion. Women are expected to lower their libido because inherently men know that most of the times they don’t care enough to meet a woman's expectations. So, why not decrease the expectation itself. And the best way to do this is to ingrain in the brain of a woman that enjoyable intercourse is pleasure, and pleasure is a sin. Associate a feeling of guilt with this joy, enforced by the society and by religion. Or teach women from childhood that enjoyable intercourse in itself is bad. This guilt has been ingrained in the self sustaining fabric of society, and the result is apparent.

All this sometimes complicates matters for women, as they get confused between their own experience and the outside impression they receive.

But this is not how you are supposed to live in a relationship. It has to be mutually fulfilling, not fulfilling for one and oppressive for the other. Remove "Pleasure is bad" from your partner's brain, understand and respect her needs, be sensitive enough to fulfil them. Fulfil them again and again, and keep all guilt out. You will then see her libido grow to at least as much as yours, if not even more. This will let you experience a higher level of self sustaining attraction and bonding between the two of you.