PEOPLE ALWAYS LEAVE ME

Its ironical when you nurture a relationship a lot, and then the other person abandons you. And mostly without notice, but at times, the two of you slowly drift away.
If this happens a few times, it alright, but when this happens again and again, isn't it time to think why its happening?

The first reaction is- People always leave me! Boo Hoo Hoo. This is what you imagine, and this is what you tell all your friends, and all potential friends/ others. This either lets them sympathize with you, or it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. The ones who start sympathizing, get closer, and start seeing the real you, and the ones who are on the verge of leaving, start moving out.

But why are some people on the verge of leaving you at all, thats the point.

One reason could be that you have yourself been pushing out people, either by expecting too much from them, or wailing too much in front of them, or doing something that gives u pleasure and gives them pain. And its most probably your doing thats driving out people.

Another reason could be that you choose people who are in some state of dependency, or emotional/physical/sexual need. And satisfying their need satisfies you in return. And as soon as their needs are met, they have to walk out. But its only you who can be blamed for bringing it upon yourself, not them.

The third possibility is the vice versa of the second one, and so, people walk out as soon they realize that u don't need any more comforting from them.

So check yourself, and you'll realize it is more of your doing rather than anybody else's, that people leave you often.